The Complete Guide to Writing Your Wedding Ceremony

Your wedding ceremony is a beautiful reflection of your love story and values. Here's an overview of the elements that make up a truly unforgettable ceremony:

• Procession: Whether traditional or modern, the procession sets the stage, often beginning with the officiant and featuring the groom escorting mothers to their seats.

• Opening Announcements: Before the family or wedding party begins to process down the aisle, I like to remind everyone to silence their cell phones and either keep them clear of the aisle or completely tucked away for the duration of the ceremony—whichever my couple prefers.

• Opening: The ceremony begins with words about the meaning of marriage and the audience’s role in supporting your journey.

• Readings & Vows: Readings highlight partnership, while vows and ring exchanges can be personalized or traditional, tailored to your comfort level.

• Your Love Story: Optional but cherished, this segment shares your journey with guests, from first meetings to future dreams.

• Unity Ceremonies & Prayers: Symbolic rituals or blessings add sentiment and meaning, welcoming creative or faith-based touches.

• Pronouncement & Introduction: The moment you’re officially announced as a married couple, culminating in your big kiss and joyful recession.

• Announcements: Guests are guided to cocktail hour while you savor time for photos with your wedding party.

Each ceremony is unique to the couple, blending tradition and personality for a day that’s entirely yours!